Ray, E.Z., Mark, and Oscar know through personal experience that having children is a profound blessing, despite societal messages that often portray them as inconveniences. Many people today grant children excessive freedom when they are young, which can lead to poor decision-making in adulthood. It’s essential for parents to appreciate the sweetness of raising children in the Lord, giving guidance when children are young so when they are older they love the Lord.
To prepare children for the world, they need a spiritual foundation and a grasp of the basics. This is achieved through knowing the scripture, praying, and attending church. The trend of worshiping online, exacerbated by Covid, needs to be reconsidered; physical attendance and active service in church are vital. From day one, parents are preparing to send their children out into the world. Oscar mentions not shielding his kids but discussing and dissecting the lies the world presents so they can discern truth as they grow.
Parents must remind their children why they exist and cultivate their hearts for the gospel. Demonstrating the gospel shows children they don’t measure up on their own. Parents are called to imitate Christ and impart that to their kids. It’s important to patiently teach them the words of Jesus. When they feel the power of sin, it will bring them back to the foot of the cross. Teach children to be open to direction and instruction. Ignoring correction leads to destruction. We should reflect on criticism rather than react impulsively. Sin is rooted in idolatry, and when our idols are challenged, it reveals the true state of our hearts.
The guys talk through some of the key things Christian parents need to instill in their children. Christians should know that work is sacred and they must be hard workers. Encourage children to immerse themselves in Proverbs. Teach them financial literacy, as schools often neglect practical skills like budgeting and balancing a checkbook. Open, honest discussions about money are crucial. Parents often feel uncomfortable discussing sex with their children, but it’s essential to seize moments to speak life into them and address the heart of the matter. Emphasize the importance of keeping their word; if they commit to something, they must follow through.
Lastly, parents should avoid treating their children as sanctifying trophies. Psalm 127 states that unless the Lord does the work, it is in vain. God is the one who raises children and sends them out for His purposes. Remember that ultimately salvation is in the Lord’s hands.